Finding the gospel in “The paper dolls” by Julia Donaldson

Paper Dolls by Julia Donaldson

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This is a beautiful story about a little girl and her mum who make some paper dolls and go on an adventure. When the paper dolls are dramatically chopped up by a boy the book gives hope that they still live on in the memory of the little girl and when she grows up she then passes on the legacy of paper dolls to her daughter.

As well as being a great story to read (with bits to sing too!) it made me think of our family legacy and what we pass on to our children. The most wonderful gift my parents gave me was telling me the gospel and introducing me to Jesus. Not just using words but also through the action of love.

Activities

    1. Making paper dolls.
    Meet the family. We cut out and coloured a paper doll for each member of the family.

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2. Clay pots

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I followed this link from Pinterest to make some air dried clay and made a pot. I explained to the kids how it says in the Bible that Jesus is the potter and we are the clay. The more we allow Him to mould and shape us into the people He wants us to be, the more we become like Jesus.

http://www.growingajeweledrose.com/2013/03/clay-recipe.html

3. Legacy
Sometimes I get caught up in the every day hum drum of washing, cooking, getting the kids to school routine and can to be honest feel a bit of a failure for not keeping on top of things or for shouting at the kids.  When I started to think about legacy I thought of some of the positive things I would like and hope the kids to remember about growing up. Some of the things that came to mind were cuddles, Walks in the woods, love of birds, and the great outdoors.

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4. Missionary books

We we have collected some of this series of books about famous Christians. All of my children have enjoyed reading or listening to them. It has been a great way of introducing the idea of mission and the amazing legacy these men and women left when they chose to live their lives telling other people about Jesus.

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5. DVD – The adventures of Toby – Crunch time.

http://www.wingclips.com/movie-clips/the-adventures-of-toby-crunch-time/full-movie

This is a great short film about a boy called Toby who learns that his the thing he desires most is not his greatest treasure – Jesus is. Really good lesson on building character with Jesus.

Thoughts

There are a few words to describe me but sporty is probably not one of them. However, as you will see from this short clip, with my hubby’s expert tuition I appear to have a great golf swing (what the clip doesn’t show is the many times before that where I missed the ball altogether).

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Andy said that each time you swing your golf club you are aiming to have the same swing technique. Apparently the reason you have different types of golf clubs is so that you can assess which one is best for each shot. Your club may change but your swing technique remains the same. Anyway this got me thinking about the gospel and how it is central to everything we do and to who we are as Christians.

Earlier this year a wonderful man in our church family who was a faithful servant of God lost his lengthy battle with cancer. He was a man of integrity who loved Jesus and loved his family. I remember our minister Sandy explaining what the word integrity meant. He said the word comes from the Greek word “integra” meaning “without cracks” and explained the process of clay jar being formed into shape. Before firing in the oven or furnace as it was then, the pots would all look the same. However, once they had been through the fire the potter would hold them up to the light and the ones that had impurities would have cracks. Held up to the light of Gods perfection all of us have impurities. We can’t fix ourselves.

I am challenged daily about living a life of integrity, especially in the way i live at home. I need to remind myself that character shows up not when we are at the front of the church or in the limelight or even with friends. C.S Lewis describes integrity as “doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.” Our character shows up in the many small choices we make each day. When things are going well but particularly when we face the fiery trials of life, when no one is there to see the good or the not so good things we do or think.

Whether we are missionaries in a foreign land, working 9-5 or looking after our children our true identity can only be found “in Christ”. Whether baby christians or those who have known Jesus for years we need to hold to the promise that we belong in Him not because of anything we have done or will do but because, only because of what Jesus did for us on the cross.

As Christians God does not look at us and see our failures or shortcomings or even our achievements and accomplishments but as Paul says in 2 Corinthians 5:21 “He [God] made Him [Jesus Christ] who knew no sin to be sin on our behalf, so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.” God looks at us and sees Jesus. Amazing!

Owl babies

Owl babies “worry” story sack

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Activities

Worries give away

“Cast all your anxieties on Him for He cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7)
At the start of the new term there are usually few anxieties starting nursery and school. One of the mums at Bible study had a great idea that before her daughter goes into school they talk about her worries. Her daughter then hands over all of her worries which she puts in her pocket promising to flush them down the toilet. Our ever wise group leader suggested we could also say that we can give our worries to Jesus. This along with a few songs (see below) and lots of cajoling has been a great idea and has encouraged my daughter to chat about feelings as well as giving her something tangible to do.

Owl baby picture

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Fairly self explanatory really. We used a bit of glue to stick down some grass, leaves, twigs and feathers then got a sponge and painted the owls, stars, beaks and feet (forgot about wings). While she was painting we talked about how the owl babies were worried about their mum not coming back. Lastly we added the googly eyes. The different sizes for older, middle and younger owl was Esther’s “unique” idea!

Books

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Story of Jesus calming the storm (most children’s bible books have this story. I like Nick Butterworth’s version, “A mouse’s tale” written from a mouse’s perspective. Great for preschool. We added in a bit of noise and action using a rainmaker when telling the story.

Bird feeders

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I read out the verse from Matthew 6:25-26 (See below) to all the kids and reminded them Jesus told his followers not to worry, that He was interested in every part of their lives and would provide for all their needs.

We then made some bird feeders. I used the recipe from RSPB for the big feeder and we also made some shapes and put a hole at the top to put string through to hang up. We wanted to share the love for birds around so gave some away to granny and neighbours.

Kids songs

DVDs

http://www.wingclips.com/movie-clips/the-adventures-of-toby-monsters-and-me/full-movie

“The adventures of Toby – Monsters and me”
This is a great animation featuring Toby who is frightened to go to bed after watching a scary movie. He meets up with Jesus who gives him a special gun that fires words, but not any words. They fire verses from the word of God. Great!

Verses to “preach” to yourself when anxious;

“For this reason I say to you, do not be anxious for your life, as to what you shall eat, or what you shall drink; nor for your body, as to what you shall put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?” (Matthew 6:25-26)

Cast all your anxieties on him, for he cares about you. (1 Peter 5:7)

When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. (Psalm 56:3)

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. (Philippians 4:6)

We know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28)

Thoughts

One of my Dads favourite jokes about worry is; “There once was a man who just couldn’t stop worrying. One day he met his friend Bill who said he didn’t worry about anything. ‘How do you do that?’ he asked. ‘Well’ said Bill, ‘I pay someone to worry for me’. The man replied ‘That’s fantastic, how much does that cost?’. Bill replied ‘It costs £1,000 per week.’. The man was taken aback and asked ‘How on earth can you afford that Bill?’ to which Bill responded ‘I can’t, but I let him worry about that!’

My 3 year old has just started nursery and their first topic was based on the book “Owl babies” by Martin Waddell. The story is about 3 baby owls who are anxious about their mother who has gone away. As I was scrolling Pinterest for ideas on the theme I came across some bible related activities on anxiety that gave me some ideas for a story sack.

One of my recent challenges has been how to “pray the scriptures” and at a bible study recently we were looking at Psalm 3 written by David who is running for his life as his son Absolom has made a claim for the throne. He is scared, downcast and disheartened. BUT like the other psalms of David he chooses to trust in God.

The bible is full of people who worried. A couple of weeks ago I was visiting a church where the pastor was talking about Hagar in Genesis 16 and how God not only hears prayers, He also intervenes. Often, like with Hagar He throws us back into the midst of difficulty with renewed strength and the knowledge that He is with us. The pastor pointed out that David describes God in Psalm 23 as his Good Shepherd, leading him beside still waters and restoring his soul. Importantly David also recognises that “the valley of the shadow of death” is not actually the wrong route. Jesus Himself promised us that in this world we will have trouble. But rather than leaving us hopeless He encourages us to take heart because He has overcome the world (John 16:33). In the midst of our trouble, He is there.